Imagine a day in the week when you wake up in the morning and don’t have to think about getting ready for work. You freshen up, walk into the kitchen, prepare tea and breakfast, and then sit comfortably on the sofa, enjoying your meal without any hurry while watching television.
In moments like these, it feels
tempting to wish every day were the same, that we didn’t have to wait six long
days just to experience the comfort of one peaceful morning. But as the saying
goes, if every day felt like Sunday, then Sunday itself would lose its charm.
Life works in a similar way. The
excess of anything availability, care, love, attention, or even food, slowly
begins to lose its meaning when it is constantly present. Perhaps value exists
not only in having something, but also in occasionally missing it.
We humans are very complicated
when it comes to relationships, whether at home or at work. That is why
emotional intelligence is so important. It helps us understand not only our own
emotions, but also the emotions of others. More importantly, it teaches us how
to create healthy boundaries, where care and understanding can exist without
losing ourselves in the process.
It’s not that we care less, love
less, or are unavailable. It simply means that, just like Sunday, emotions too
are better understood and appreciated when they are earned, valued, and not
constantly taken for granted.
After breakfast, I prepared a
delicious mutton curry to make the day feel even more special.
Life is similar in many ways.
There are only a few people with whom you can experience the comfort of a
Sunday, the kind of peace where you can simply exist without hurry, pressure,
or pretence. Such people are rare.
Never undervalue or undermine
them. Make them feel special, just like Sunday.
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